Sunday, December 2, 2007

Don't fear marriage

I know that most people hear other's trying to talk someone out of getting married. Let me tell you from personal experience, don't listen. If the person that you are with is everything that you are looking for and more then why not. True things slow down when you get married but more things pick up and there isn't much time to worry about the small stuff.
I always knew that I would get married but I had no idea of whom that might be. I think that no one really knows who they are going to marry until they raise and fall. When you fall that's when your eyes open up therefore you can see the light at the end of the tunnel. Grass may not be green'er on the other side off the fence but there is always light at the end of the tunnel. That's something you can chose to believe in or not.
Being married is special. Some people tend to use marriage as a crutch instead of what it is. In today's world, a person is lucky to find a man/woman that want's to spend the rest of their lives with the person they love. I was fortunate enough to have my blessing come back to me after two years of seperation. Also there is no I in marriage but a we/us. The sooner most idiots realize that simple fact, the divorce rate in my eyes would drop off. People are getting married for all the wrong reasons instead of the right ones. So choose wisely because your future depends on it.

2 comments:

RiCuS said...

Pe0ple are good at talking others out of getting married. My family is know for this. They are also known to wait THEIR WHOLE LIFE to get married! LoL...My uncle was 40 and my mom is 42 and still isnt married! Hope I dont wait that long!

Kameshia Williams said...

I promise you are so right because that what more young men fail to realize because I myself is going through a problem like that because on big problem two is people dont knw when to grow up and stop thinking abbout what the next person going to say